Mind Games & Mysteries

A 7-Day Hypnotic Dating Adventure for Singles

Created & Led by an Award-Winning British Hypnotherapist & Film Director

14:00 - 17:00 : Mystical Arrival & Check-In

A Luxury of Silence: From the moment you arrive, the Portal invites you to embrace its philosophy of quiet luxury in an unexpectedly literal way. As you settle into your carefully curated bungalow, where a personalised welcome awaits, you'll discover that today's serenity goes beyond our signature understated elegance. Tonight's psychological experiment requires all eight participants to remain perfect strangers. Therefore, until then, we kindly invite you to embrace the art of noble silence, a practice historically reserved for society's most discerning circles. Like the great contemplative salons of bygone eras, today's atmosphere of refined quietude sets the stage for the evening. Consider it an elevation of our quiet luxury ethos. Should you require anything, our attentive Portal staff will ensure your comfort with discrete, whispered service—allowing you to savour both solitude and sophistication in equal measure.

15:00 - 16:30 : One-on-One Individual Hypnotherapy Session (1)

17:30 – 19:30 : Dinner

This evening only, due to the requirement for silence, you'll indulge in a unique solo dining experience in a special setting, entirely to yourself.

20:00 - 21:45 : Welcome Workshop

Introduction to the Retreat's Theme, Week's Workshops, Mind Games &  Parties

Introduction to Hypnosis: What is the conscious/unconscious dynamic that rules your life? What is hypnosis, and how can you harness its power in your day-to-day life? Light Hypnosis Demonstration.

The Art & Science of Attraction: Pairing Up – A Fascinating Psychological Experiment in Human Connection

In this powerful exercise, you will explore the hidden threads that bind strangers together. First, you'll partner with another participant to exchange childhood stories. Through careful listening, you'll identify a meaningful commonality from your shared tales. Your pair will then join another duo to share spontaneous stories from your adolescent years. Together, you'll discover one significant element that connects all four participants, revealing the subtle ways human experiences interweave.

22:30 - 01:00 Opening Party - Mirror Universe Ball

The Topsy-Turvy Identity Party Step into your polar opposite at the Mirror Universe Ball! Come dressed as your alternate-reality self—whether that means transforming your outgoing persona into a shy one, your corporate look into a bohemian spirit, or whatever creative flip side you can imagine. You'll take turns showcasing your mirror universe character through costume and mannerisms, while other guests try to decode your true identity by analysing the opposites you're portraying. The more detailed your transformation, the more fun the revelations become! And dance the night away...

DAY 1

Welcome to Mind Games

08:00 - 09:30 : Breakfast

10:00 - 12:30 : Mind Games

Do You Know Who You Really Are?  – The Cube, The Rare Stone & Knocking Over the Bin - a fun & interesting way to discover yourself & the others in a deeper way

Communicate & Connect - Meisner Repetition Technique: You will practice a simple, yet powerful exercise used by actors to enhance emotional connection. You will develop your ability to stay present, listen attentively, and react truthfully and spontaneously in the moment.

13:00 - 14:00 : Lunch 

15:00 - 16:30 : Portal Activity 

15:00 - 16:30 : One-on-One Individual Hypnotherapy Session (2)

17:00 - 19:30 : The Art & Science of Attraction

Mind Games Do You Know Who You Really Want to Be With ? The Surprise Visit - a fun way to discover what you are unconsciously seeking in a partner.

Opposites Attract, or Birds of a Feather Flock Together? This is the question! Do you believe that differences complement each other, leading to a more balanced relationship, or that shared traits and values create a strong foundation for understanding and empathy? What stops you from being with the person you want, and what helps you achieve it? We’ll uncover the depths of your relationship patterns and explore how to achieve what you truly want. 

20:00 - 21:30 : Dinner 

22:00 - 01:00 : Wine, Truth & Wisdom: A Night of Love Stories

Dress as your favourite fictional romantic hero or heroine, or wear something that tells its own love story—could be vintage, inherited, or tied to a personal memory. On this intimate evening, sip fine wines as you share a personal love story that changed your path or your perspective on relationships and life. Heart-warming or bittersweet, every tale holds wisdom. Together, we'll create a safe space for authentic storytelling and collective reflection. But there's also a twist—one of the details in your story is not true because you made it up. Will the others be able to recognise what that detail is? And dance the night away....

DAY 2

You & Me

08:00 - 09:30 : Breakfast

10:00 – 12:30 : Mind Games

If You Were A....: a fun game that reveals your current state

Chain of Memories: You'll sit in a circle with the others and take turns linking your memories through different senses. One person will start with a vivid sensory memory, like the smell of cinnamon rolls. Then, you'll share a memory triggered by that same sense (smell), but your memory must focus on a different sense (e.g., the sight of Christmas candles). This continues, with each person connecting their memory by a different sense, creating a chain of sensory-linked recollections. Your goal is to build a tapestry of shared experiences through these sensory connections, which will lead to a startling revelation.

Your Feel Good Button - learn how to create one and how to use it whenever you want, either for yourself or with your partner.

13:00 - 14:00 : Lunch 

15:00 - 16:30 : Portal Activity 

15:00 - 16:30 : One-on-One Hypnotherapy Individual Session (3)

17:00 - 19:30 : The Art & Science of Attraction 

Mind Games: Into the Memory... You’ll take a trip down memory lane and relive a memorable date, sharing it with the group as if it’s happening right now. Describe the experience as vividly as possible, bringing every moment to life through your words. While you’re sharing, the rest of the group will listen closely, noting the details that stand out the most to them.

After everyone has shared, the group will vote on the most vivid and engaging story—but there’s a twist. A hidden layer of meaning will be revealed at the end, along with a special prize for one lucky participant.

By uncovering this hidden layer, you’ll gain valuable insights into how you connect with others and experience the world—knowledge that can enhance your relationships in powerful, practical ways.

20:00 - 22:00 : Dinner

22:30 - 01:00 Glam & Games Candlelight Party

Cocktail - Evening Dress You'll all split into 4 teams of 2 and play Charades, a lively game where your partner acts out a word or phrase without speaking while you guess based on gestures and movements. Then, play Truth or Dare—a thrilling game where players choose between revealing a truth or completing a daring challenge. The winners of Charades get to give the truth/dare choices to the losers. And dance the night away...

DAY 3

In the Realm of the Senses

08:00 - 09:30 : Breakfast

10:00 – 12:30 : Mind Games

Whispers of the Senses: Embark on an imaginative adventure with your partner as you explore evocative locations and moments in time. With your eyes closed, choose a setting—perhaps a moonlit beach in the Maldives, or a hidden hot spring under the stars. Choose wisely, as this will become your sensory playground!

Your partner then has 5 minutes to guide you through a sensory journey in your chosen setting. Through creative storytelling, they'll bring your chosen world to life - engaging all five senses. Experience the warmth of the evening breeze, catch the scent of jasmine on the air, feel the silky water rippling against your skin.

Once your journey ends, switch roles and become the storyteller, creating an immersive experience for your partner in their chosen setting. This intimate game encourages playful connection and unlocks creativity. By exploring imaginative scenarios together, you'll learn a powerful technique for deepening your bond with your romantic partner.

13:00 - 14:00 : Lunch 

15:00 - 16:30 : Portal Activity 

15:00 - 16:30 : One-on-One Hypnotherapy Individual Session (4)

17:00 - 19:30 : Introduction to Self-Hypnosis

Powerful Keys  of Communication with Yourself & Others

20:00 - 22:00 : Dinner

22:30 - 01:00 : The Portal Hosts Talent

Craft Beer & Live Music Party: Dress code - rock star glam meets comedy club cool. Share your creative spirit by telling three jokes, reciting a poem, or singing your heart out—the choice is yours. Step into the spotlight at our talent-filled evening where beers flow freely. The most entertaining performance wins a special prize as live music sets the mood. And dance the night away...

DAY 4

Learn Self-Hypnosis & Secrets of Communication

08:00 - 09:30 : Breakfast

10:00 – 12:30 : Mind Games

Emotional Speed Dating: Draw a list of five questions from a hat, then rotate through pairs to ask and respond to a series of psychologically charged prompts such as, When was the last time you felt truly alive? or What’s your most recurring daydream? These prompts are designed to spark deep, meaningful exchanges and build quick connections. Afterwards, reflect on which pairings felt the most natural or intriguing.

13:00 - 14:00 : Lunch 

15:00 - 16:30 : One-on-One Hypnotherapy Individual Session (5)

15:00 - 16:30 : Portal Activity 

17:00 - 19:30 : Mind Games - And the Truth Shall Set You Free...

Hot Seat Confessions: You'll take turns sitting in the “hot seat” for 3 minutes while others ask you daring questions that you must answer truthfully. This game encourages openness and authenticity, and questions can range from What’s your wildest date experience?  to Who in the group would you kiss?

Strawberry Fields Forever & Fun Park - experience two mind games that will dazzle and give you the edge with your potential romantic partners.  

20:00 - 22:00 : Dinner

22:30 - 01:00 Go Wild Party: The Unconscious Safari

Explore the "wild" areas of the unconscious mind. Come dressed as an explorer, an animal, or a jungle inhabitant.

Mind Games: You’ll all be sitting in a circle, and one person starts by telling the beginning of an adventurous jungle story. Going around the circle, each person takes turns to add a few sentences to the story. The goal is to come up with the wildest and most entertaining story possible. And then dance the night away...

DAY 5

Go Wild

08:00 - 09:30 : Breakfast

10:30 - 12:00 : One-on-One Hypnotherapy Individual Session (6)

10:30 - 12:00 : Portal Activity

13:00 - 14:30 : Lunch 

15:00 - 16:30 : Portal Activity 

15:00 - 16:30 : One-on-One Hypnotherapy Individual Session (7)

17:00 - 19:30 : Mind Games

The Castle, The Forest, and The Love Path - personality tests that assess your state after five days of retreat, focusing on the love, relationship, and social aspects of your personality.

Q&A - ask anything...and receive the answer :)

20:00 - 22:00 : Dinner

22:30pm - 01:00 : Closing Party - You Are the DJ to Your Life

Share Your Vibe: Come dressed as something that represents your favourite song and bring a playlist of your three most beloved tracks. Take your turn as DJ, sharing the story behind each song: how you discovered it, why it moved you, and what it means to your life. Share, listen, connect through music, and dance the night away.

DAY 6

Heartfelt

08:00 - 09:30 : Breakfast

10:00 - 12:30 : Gratitude Circle

Share something you're grateful for about another person in the group, focusing on qualities or actions you've noticed. You can pair your gratitude with fun compliments, like I’m grateful for your courage to make everyone laugh.

13:00 - 14:00 : Lunch & Check-out

14:30 - 16:00 : One-on-One Hypnotherapy Individual Session (8)

DAY 7

Full Circle